Sunday, November 11, 2018

Life is Supposed to be Different Among Us


St. Paul’s Church in Bergen & Church of the Incarnation, Jersey City NJ
November 11, 2018

Year B, Proper 27: The Twenty-Fifth Sunday after Pentecost
Ruth 3:1-5; 4:13-17
Psalm 127
Hebrews 9:24-38
Mark 12:38-44

Life is Supposed to be Different Among Us
            On Saturday, as I edit the Prayers of the People, and then each Sunday as I stand there listening to the lector lead us in those prayers, I pray – I think – I hope – that maybe the next week will be a week with no troubles – that next week we can finally get a break – that we won’t have anything to add to the long list of natural and manmade disasters.
            Maybe you also pray – think – hope something similar.
            There may or may not be much that we can do about natural disasters, like the terrifying wildfires burning California.
But, it would be nice if we could somehow cut down on the manmade disasters, which are so upsetting and discouraging.
            This time last week we were just absorbing the horrific slaughter at the Tree of Life Synagogue and now here we are today mourning the senseless slaughter of people just out for a good time at a country western concert in Thousand Oaks, California – and unbelievably some of the same people at that concert – including one of the victims - were survivors of the bloodbath at a much larger concert in Las Vegas last year.
            And, of course, on Tuesday we had an important election in our country – an election that once again exposed our bitter differences – a divide so deep that we seem unable to hear each other, let alone understand, or empathize with, one another.
            All of these manmade disasters raise a question:
            Has life always been this way?
Or, are we just more aware of it because of the speed and easy access of modern media?
            I don’t know, though I lean toward it’s always been this way.
            After all, today we mark the hundredth anniversary of the end of the First World War – a war that killed about 10 million soldiers and civilians, not including those who died because of famine and illness.
            There have always been manmade disasters, yet close to the heart of our faith is the belief that this is not the way things were meant to be – that, because of our sin, humanity has gone horribly wrong.
            And, also close to the heart of our faith is Jesus’ teaching and insistence that whatever horrors are going on out there, life in the temple – life here here among us - is supposed to be different.

            Over and over throughout the gospels, Jesus uses many opportunities and situations to teach us – to remind us – that life here among us is supposed to be different.
            For example, if you were here a couple of weeks ago, you may remember that we heard the story of the brother apostles James and John asking Jesus if they could sit at his right hand and left hand in the kingdom.
            Remember that?
            And, after hearing this request, the other apostles get angry with the brothers, presumably because they want a shot at the having the best seats in the kingdom of God.
            Very worldly behavior, right?
            And now in today’s gospel lesson we find Jesus and his disciples in the Jerusalem Temple – the center of Jewish religious and political life – the place where, in a sense, God was believed to dwell. But, there was also a long history of Jewish prophets and others being critical of the Temple and its leaders, and Jesus is very much part of this tradition.
            Anyway, Jesus and his disciples are in the Temple, where he offers a stinging critique of the scribes. These men were generally highly esteemed for their great learning, but Jesus simply isn’t having it. He calls them out as villains - villains who “devour” widows’ houses. He calls them out as hypocrites - hypocrites walking around in their long robes saying long prayers “for the sake of appearances.”
            No, Jesus is not too crazy about the religious leaders of his time –and, as someone who, um, sometimes wears long robes and recites long prayers in public, passages like this always get me thinking about what Jesus would make of the religious leaders of today – what Jesus would make of people who say they minister in his name – what Jesus would make of me.
            Maybe fortunately for us professional Christians, the story moves on quickly to another scene in the Temple – this time opposite the Temple treasury.
            And, at first glance, this second part of today’s gospel lesson looks like a perfect story for a priest who is trying to get his parishioners to pledge as much money as they can to keep the church going.
            Jesus observes a poor widow who gives two small copper coins – a tiny, tiny amount of money but it’s everything she has – the poor widow gives all that she has to the temple.
            After seeing this act of extraordinary generosity, Jesus tells his disciples, “Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the treasury. For all of them have contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all that she had to live on.”
            This story – the story of the so-called widow’s “mite” – is a story that has inspired a million stewardship sermons. We’ve probably all heard them and I’ve even given one or two – but, I wonder if we aren’t meant to learn a different lesson than giving all that we have to the church.
            Notice that Jesus doesn’t exactly praise the woman’s extravagant generosity. No, he simply states a fact: since she gave everything she had – and since she was, perhaps, generous to a fault – she did give more generously than the others who gave out of their abundance, who gave from the money they had left over.
            So, I wonder if this story that seems to be about generosity isn’t in fact just another part of Jesus’ critique of the Temple.
            We know Jesus isn’t crazy about the long-robed scribes living pretty well.
And, we don’t have to stretch our imaginations to conclude that Jesus doesn’t approve of the well to do giving merely out of their abundance.
 And, considering the system that Jesus is critiquing, I can’t imagine that he really approves of the poor widow giving everything she has to support that very system.
But, here’s the thing: I think the real issue for Jesus is that the temple – this house of prayer – this house of God – is just too much like the world
In fact, the temple system that Jesus critiques sounds an awful lot like the world outside, doesn’t it?
There are a few well-dressed people with all of the privilege who profit off of the backs of the poor – the poor who, willingly or not, give most, if not all, that they have.
But, Jesus teaches and insists that it’s supposed to be different in God’s house.
Life is supposed to be different in the temple.
Life is supposed to be different among us.

That’s what the brother apostles James and John didn’t get – at least, not yet, when they asked to sit beside Jesus in glory.
Life is supposed to be different among us.
That’s why Jesus is critical of the religious leaders of the first century – and is probably not so thrilled with many of us religious leaders of today – far too often it’s about our own glory, fame, and worldly power.
Life is supposed to be different among us.
That’s why I’m not so sure that Jesus approves of the poor widow giving all that she has – it’s too much like the world where the many poor are broke but the few well to do people continue to do just fine.
Life is supposed to be different among us.

You’ve all been around the block a few times, so I don’t need to tell you that too often things aren’t as different here among us as they should be.
While I don’t think I devour widow’s houses, I know that I’m not as aware as I should be of how much I benefit from being a white man in our society – and how much I benefit from being automatically given respect because I’m ordained.
And, it’s true that some of us merely give out of our abundance while we place too many burdens on a few.
Life is supposed to be different among us.

But, you know, when I get discouraged I’m reminded that more and more, life among us does look different than life out there in the world.
Our church has been diverse for a long time, but I’m struck by how in a time of such bitter division out there, we’ve for the most part managed to stay united in here.
Out in the world there is so much pressure and worry over material possessions – so much faith that the more we have the happier we’ll be – yet here there is so much generosity - so many of you have signed up to welcome our Family Promise guests, or have given to Mia’s vision, or have increased your pledge in a time when everything seems so uncertain or made a pile of sandwiches for the hungry or even just given up something you really like and that some maybe even need – yes, I’m talking about coffee hour – in order to make room for people who have no home.
Life is supposed to be different among us.

Finally, a quick story:
The other day one of our parishioners celebrated his birthday, but he didn’t celebrate it with family and friends, didn’t go out to eat, didn’t make a wish and blow out the candles, didn’t receive gifts – at least not those wrapped in a box.
No, he spent his birthday hanging out with our Family Promise guests and spending the night sleeping on an inflatable mattress rather than at home in his own bed.
When I went home for the night, I left him happily playing a game of checkers with one of our young guests.
Life is supposed to be different among us.
And, sometimes, it really is.
Amen.