St. Paul’s Church in
Bergen, Jersey City
January 9, 2016
The Wedding of Adam
Krieg and Katie Lynch
Isaiah 32:2, 16-18
A Glimpse of the Kingdom
Well,
this is a great day, right?
What
a joy to be here in this beautiful place today celebrating with all of you,
celebrating the union of Adam and Katie.
I
have to say I’m especially excited to be here today.
I
was very honored that Katie and Adam asked me to officiate at their wedding –
and they assure me that it’s not only because of the super-convenience
of having my church right next door to where they live.
Though
there’s that.
It’s
been a joy to help prepare Adam and Katie for today and for married life beyond
– it’s been a gift to become friends.
When
we started I didn’t really know them well. We had had a few conversations, mostly
outside when one or both were walking their beautiful dog, Teddy.
But,
over these past few months as we’ve prepared and talked I’ve learned what I bet
you’ve all known for a long time:
These
are two truly exceptional people – deeply caring, whip smart, a perfect fit for
each other – both kind of quiet, very thoughtful, very what the kids call
“chill.”
How
fortunate for us to know them and to love them, right?
What
a blessing.
Now,
I don’t know, but maybe there are some of you here today who might be thinking,
well, you know, it’s about time – it’s about time that these two who
have been together for so long, who obviously love each other so much, are
finally making this big commitment to each other, finally tying the knot.
And,
believe me, I certainly understand impatience.
In
a way, our whole society is based on impatience – the need for everything to
get done ever faster – the impatience and demand for ever-greater efficiency and
multi-tasking that’s making us all a little crazy, I think.
But,
that’s not God’s way.
God
has all the time in the world so there’s no rush at all.
And,
throughout the Old and New Testaments there is a vision of a restored creation,
of the world finally being set right again, of God’s kingdom being established
on earth – a vision of us living the kind of lives that we were always meant to
live.
We
heard a piece of that vision in today’s reading from the Prophet Isaiah – a
typically unconventional choice by Katie and Adam.
Isaiah
presents this beautiful vision of God’s kingdom:v
“Then
justice will dwell in the wilderness, and righteousness abide in the fruitful
field. The effect of righteousness will be peace, and the result of
righteousness, quietness and trust for ever. My people will abide in a peaceful
habitation, in secure dwellings, and in quiet resting-places.”
It’s
a beautiful vision, isn’t it?
Of
course, I don’t have to tell you that in our broken world scarred by poverty,
injustice, fear, and violence, we are nowhere near the kingdom described by
Isaiah.
God
takes God’s time – and seems, at least so far, willing to give us time to work
with God to build God’s kingdom on earth.
But
– and here’s the thing – as we take our time God gives us glimpses – gives us glimpses
of God’s kingdom – glimpses of the
way things were always meant to be – glimpses
that inspire us and encourage us to keep going – to keep working with God to
build the kingdom.
I
hope you’ve seen those kinds of glimpses in your life – holding the hand of the
one you love, getting help from someone even though they know you can never
repay them, receiving forgiveness for what you thought was unforgivable, looking
into the eyes of your child for the first time…
I
hope you’ve seen glimpses of God’s kingdom in your life – but I know you’ve
gotten at least one glimpse of God’s kingdom because you’ve seen, you’ve known,
you love Adam and Katie.
When
we look at the life and love they share – while imperfect like everything human
– we get a glimpse of the Kingdom of God.
And,
I have no doubt that when they welcome new life into the world, we will get
even more glimpses of the way things were always meant to be, thanks to the
love shared by this beautiful family.
So,
today we celebrate.
Today
we promise to support Katie and Adam, no matter what.
And,
today we all get a truly beautiful glimpse of God’s kingdom.
What
a great day.
Amen.