Sunday, April 24, 2016

The New Commandment that Never Gets Old

St. Paul’s Church in Bergen, Jersey City NJ
April 24, 2016

Year C: The Fifth Sunday of Easter
Acts 11:1-8
Psalm 148
Revelation 21:1-6
John 13:31-35

The New Commandment that Never Gets Old
            Alleluia! Christ is risen!
            The Lord is risen indeed! Alleluia!
            The Lord is risen indeed but today’s Gospel lesson takes us back to the Last Supper, back to Jesus’ final meal with his disciples and friends - one last chance for Jesus to teach, as the hours of his earthly life run out.
            We’re back at the Last Supper.
            Judas has just left to do what he is going to do, departing to set in motion a chain of events leading to the glory of the Cross – a chain of events leading to the glory of the empty tomb and new life.
            Alleluia! Christ is risen!
            The Lord is risen indeed! Alleluia!
            But, today we’re back at the Last Supper.
            Jesus tries to teach, tries to get through to his often thickheaded and unfaithful disciples – the disciples who, let’s remember, are about to fail miserably as they betray, deny, and abandon Jesus in his greatest moment of need.
            There’s no time to waste so Jesus cuts right to the heart of the matter – gets to what’s most important – focuses on what it really means to be a follower of Jesus:
            “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you should love one another. By this everyone will know you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
            A new commandment: love one another as Jesus has loved us.
            We’re commanded to love one another by hanging out with the wrong kinds of people, by offering hospitality to absolutely everyone.
            We’re commanded to love one another by serving others, especially the weak and the vulnerable.
            We’re commanded to love one another by giving away what has been given to us.
            A new commandment: love one another as Jesus has loved us.
            Now, the Last Supper happened a long time ago but Jesus’ new commandment to love one another is still always new – it’s the new commandment that never gets old.
            Jesus’ new commandment to love one another is still new because, let’s face it, we still so often fall short – we so often break this new commandment – just look around at our world, our country, our city, and, yes, sometimes even our church.
            That’s pretty discouraging and depressing
            But, you know, here’s the good news: Jesus’ new commandment to love one another never gets old because when we see it being obeyed – when we obey it ourselves – it feels like nothing else, it feels absolutely right, it feels like the way things were always meant to be.
            The new commandment that never gets old: love one another as Jesus has loved us.
            For many months now at all of our services we’ve been praying for the refugees fleeing Africa and the Middle East – refugees, some of whom have been welcomed in Europe and elsewhere, while many more have been feared, rejected, and turned away – refugees, some of whom have drowned in the Mediterranean Sea making the desperate trip to escape war, oppression, and poverty.
            We’ve been praying for the refugees – which is good and right – but we haven’t done much else. I’m open to suggestions.
            But, you may have seen on the news that last week Pope Francis flew to the Greek island of Lesbos where many refugees from the Middle East are being kept in camps until they either find sanctuary or, more likely, are sent back.
            As you’d expect, the Pope prayed, alongside leaders of the Greek Orthodox Church – prayed, which is right and good.
            But, the Pope did more than pray.
            Understanding the power of symbolism and the power of love, the Pope brought twelve Syrian refugees back with him to Rome, where they will be housed and cared for at the Vatican.
            On the plane ride back to Rome, the Pope showed reporters two drawings that refugee children had given him. One showed children drowning in the sea. And, the other showed the sun crying.
            The twelve fortunate refugees are members of three families, include six children - and all of them are Muslims.
            The new commandment that never gets old: love one another as Jesus has loved us.
            Alleluia! Christ is risen!
            The Lord is risen indeed! Alleluia!
            My parents have a big wedding anniversary coming up in a couple of weeks and that milestone has gotten me thinking about all that they gave me as a child and all the ways they continue to support and encourage me even now.
            When I think back to my childhood, I’m struck by the fact that I can only remember one time that my parents took a vacation without my sister and me – we stayed over at my grandparents’ house for maybe two nights – such an unusual event that it sticks out in my memory.
            Many of you know them today as teachers but that wasn’t always the case. When we were kids, they worked at other jobs that didn’t give a lot of satisfaction but were necessary so my sister and I could go to Catholic schools, and pursue our interests, and have as many opportunities as possible.
            My parents offered – offer - models of self-sacrificial love that have shaped my sister and me.
            I’m reminded of my parents’ self-sacrificial love because, thank God, I get to see them pretty often, but also because I see that same kind of love among so many of you here at St. Paul’s – parents working long hours at jobs, sometimes more than one job, you may not particularly enjoy or find fulfilling – all to give your kids the best shot possible.
            And, I see you grandparents devoting your retirement to babysitting, dropping off grandchildren, great-grandchildren sometimes, at school in the morning and picking them up again in the afternoon, giving money to help with bills, giving up your own dreams and sacrificing rest, all for love.
            The new commandment that never gets old: love one another as Jesus has loved us.
            Alleluia! Christ is risen!
            The Lord is risen indeed! Alleluia!
            Most of you know that a few months ago someone broke into our church, managing to steal the entire offering from the previous Sunday.
            We were all very sad and disturbed when it happened. It was hard to accept that someone would steal from this community that tries so hard to offer service to those in need.
            But, we all know that the gnawing of addiction or the demand of unpaid bills can make people do desperate things.
            And, we were grateful that it was only money – no one was hurt and there was little property damage.
            For me and maybe for you, one of the sad parts of this has been the need to beef up our security. It’s been costly and I hate anything that makes this place look unwelcoming, but of course we have a responsibility to protect what’s been entrusted to us.
            But, you know how God is, and, sure enough, there has been joy even amidst this loss and sadness.
            As I’ve mentioned before, quite a few people from my former parish, Grace Church in Madison, care about me and us and the work that we’re doing here together.
            On their own (I didn’t ask) they began sending in checks, $50, $100, $200, and eventually they sent us more than the cash that had been taken – so much generosity for people they barely – or, in most cases, don’t even – know!
            But, that was a while ago and by now, I had thought everybody had moved on.
            But then, last week, I got a call from a Grace parishioner who told me that I’d be receiving a check in the mail and she wanted to explain.
            It turns out that her two grandchildren had kept mite boxes during Lent, dropping in their spare change over those 40 holy days.
            When it came time to donate their money – it came to $30 – they decided to send it to us – to a church they had never visited – to a priest they maybe barely remember – to people they do not know.
            Two little kids knew that we had been hurt and they wanted to help as best they could - so they gave what they had.
            The new commandment that never gets old: love one another as Jesus has loved us.
            Alleluia! Christ is risen!
            The Lord is risen indeed! Alleluia!
            All these centuries later, Jesus’ new commandment to love one another is still new because we still so often fall short – we so often break this new commandment – just look around our world, our country, our city, and, yes, sometimes even our church.
            But, Jesus’ new commandment to love one another never gets old because when we see it being obeyed – when we obey it ourselves – it feels like nothing else, it feels absolutely right, it feels like the way things were always meant to be.
            The new commandment that never gets old: love one another as Jesus has loved us.
            Alleluia! Christ is risen!
            The Lord is risen indeed! Alleluia! Amen.